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Supporting Parents — Even in
High-Conflict Situations 

Coparenting doesn’t have to be chaotic. You can parent calmly, with boundaries and dignity—even when the other parent refuses.

That's where Coparenting Coaching comes in.  

I work with individuals - and sometimes two parents - who want support to smoothly transition to coparenting.  

Navigating High‑Conflict Coparenting with Trauma‑Informed Support

Portrait of Chavisa Horemans, trauma-informed divorce coach, coparenting coach, chronic health coach, life transitions coach, and empowerment coach at the beach in Vancouver, BC, Canada.

Are you stuck in a high-conflict coparenting situation?

The tensions, the legal battles, the emotional exhaustion. 
It’s overwhelming. You’re not alone.

Whether you're deep in the trenches of legal proceedings or trying to survive each day with the kids I am here to walk beside you as your Coparenting Coach—with compassion, clarity, and proven trauma‑informed strategies.

Do you have a parenting agreement in place?

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BEFORE

Lets work together before your divorce proceedings to navigate coparenting before legal paperworks is in place.
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I help you understand what to be aware of in this decision-making terrain.

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DURING

Lets work together during legal proceedings to keep you calm and grounded.​

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I help you strengthen negotiations.

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AFTER

Lets work together if legal paperwork is not being followed.​

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I help you understand how to navigate effectively to safeguard yourself.

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ONGOING

Lets work together for continued support as you coparent.  

 

I help you with mindset support, conflict navigation and problem-solving. 

Is this why you’re here?

  • You dread the next communication — call, text, email, in-person interaction, or court date
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  • You notice your child feels stuck between you and the other parent
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  • You feel powerless, frustrated, depleted—or even fearful
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  • You long for clarity, calm, and control over your emotions and responses

What is high-conflict coparenting? 
 

High‑conflict coparenting isn’t just disagreements over schedules or discipline.

 

It often involves:

  • Persistent communication breakdown—emails or calls that escalate into overt or covert abuse

  • Emotional volatility and manipulation—such as guilt-tripping, silent treatment and unpredicable outbursts

  • Court escalations—frequent filings, motions, or drawn out proceedings

  • Stonewalling on decision making issues—like routine medical issues or vaccinations

  • Kids as pawns—exposing children to parental strife, loyalty pressure, or conflicting narratives

     

​These dynamics are deeply stressful, toxic and confusing.  

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This is harmful to you and you might not want to burden those around you with every new development.

 

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I get it. As a Coparenting Coach, I can help.

High-conflict coparenting support

Break the Cycle. Protect Your Kids. Reclaim Your Peace.

Struggling with high-conflict coparenting in Toronto, Calgary,  Vancouver, Seattle, California, or New York?  I can help you anywhere!
 
You’re not alone. Whether you're coparenting with a stonewaller, a gaslighter, a narcissist, an abuser, dealing with legal stress, or managing emotionally damaging communication, you deserve trauma-informed  support that puts your mental health and your child’s wellbeing first.
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As your Coparenting Coach, I help you reduce conflict, regain emotional balance, and build healthier boundaries — with holistic evidence-based coparenting support that’s strategic, empathetic, and grounded in real experience.

Working Together Means:

Testimonial on a tablet screen from a client in BC praising The Mother Corp. for compassion, respect, deep knowledge of systems, and support in navigating legal, social, and interpersonal challenges of silent abuse. The client describes how The Mother Corp. found solutions when all options seemed closed, provided practical and emotional guidance, and helped protect both the client and their child. The Mother Corp. logo with the tagline “Trauma-Informed Consultant��” appears at the bottom right.
Testimonial on a tablet screen from a client in BC praising The Mother Corp. for compassion, respect, deep knowledge of systems, and support in navigating legal, social, and interpersonal challenges of silent abuse. The client describes how The Mother Corp. found solutions when all options seemed closed, provided practical and emotional guidance, and helped protect both the client and their child. The Mother Corp. logo with the tagline “Trauma-Informed Consultant” appears at the bottom right.
Mindset support infographic from The Mother Corp. Here is the emotional mindset work we can do together so you can understand what is and is not in your sphere of control. Determining what activities are undertaken during your parenting (such as soccer and tv time). Not in your sphere of control: Determining what activities are done during the other parent’s time. What areas and aspects you determine (such as food, bedtime, and routines). Not in your sphere of control: Determining areas and aspects done during the other parent’s time. Looking after yourself physically, emotionally and spiritually, especially under stress. Not in your sphere of control: How other people behave. Your actions—including how you speak to your children in age-appropriate language during times of change or trauma. Not in your sphere of control: Other people’s actions. Working together means that you know what you can let go of and where you can effect positive change.
Mindset support infographic from The Mother Corp. Here is the emotional mindset work we can do together so you can understand what is and is not in your sphere of control. Determining what activities are undertaken during your parenting (such as soccer and tv time). Not in your sphere of control: Determining what activities are done during the other parent’s time. What areas and aspects you determine (such as food, bedtime, and routines). Not in your sphere of control: Determining areas and aspects done during the other parent’s time. Looking after yourself physically, emotionally and spiritually, especially under stress. Not in your sphere of control: How other people behave. Your actions—including how you speak to your children in age-appropriate language during times of change or trauma. Not in your sphere of control: Other people’s actions. Working together means that you know what you can let go of and where you can effect positive change.

Concrete support

Here is how we can work together with Coparenting Coaching:
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  • Center your child’s best interests
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  • Learn how to demonstrate your position factually and leverage it effectively
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  • Understand the nuances of decisions you'll be making — and their implication
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  • Learn how to de-scalate conflict in communication

What trauma‑informed Coparenting Coaching support looks like

Our approach is shaped by firsthand experiences and grounded in trauma‑informed coaching:

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  • Communication Strategy & Skill Building
    Learn to write factual, non-reactive messages, set firm boundaries, and reduce reactivity.

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  • Emotional Regulation & Self‑Care
    Develop tools to manage overwhelm, reduce anxiety and exhaustion, and stay grounded —   so you're showing up as the parent you want to be.

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  • Boundary & Conflict Management
    Create safe patterns of interaction and maintain them even when the other parent escalates.

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  • System Navigation & Advocacy
    Get support wading through documents, institutional processes, and working with other professionals, and accessing resources​

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  • Children’s Needs & Emotional Well‑Being 
    Learn how best to support your kids within a high-stress environment—age-appropriate explanations, consistency, and emotional safety.​     

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​My holistic, evidence-based services are tailored to your situation and offered in a flexible, trauma‑informed format:

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  • 1:1 Coparenting Coaching Sessions – Virtual or phone-based, regular and as-needed support

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  • Written Communication Review – Draft, refine, and strategize text, emails, letters and documents (*not lega

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  • Communicating with Children – Coaching you around sibling dynamics, transition stress, and maintaining emotional balance

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  • Professional Collaboration – Confidential work alongside your lawyer, therapist, or other professionals to build cohesive strategies

How I can support you

What My Coparenting Coaching Clients Say:

Testimonial displayed on a tablet screen that reads: "Having some sessions with Chavisa was a turning point for me. She is extremely knowledgeable, straightforward and uses a holistic approach. She was able to support me with practical matters like drafting professional emails, mindfulness techniques and assisted me in carving out a new path after a complex separation with a young child." — Mother, Vancouver. At the bottom right is The Mother Corp logo with the tagline “Trauma-Informed Consultant.”
Testimonial displayed on a tablet screen that reads: "Having some sessions with Chavisa was a turning point for me. She is extremely knowledgeable, straightforward and uses a holistic approach. She was able to support me with practical matters like drafting professional emails, mindfulness techniques and assisted me in carving out a new path after a complex separation with a young child." — Mother, Vancouver. At the bottom right is The Mother Corp logo with the tagline “Trauma-Informed Consultant.”

Working together means improved strategy, emotional regulation and nurturing your Parenting

My Coparenting Coaching approach is shaped by firsthand experiences and grounded in holistic evidence-based practices.  

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You don’t need to navigate high-conflict parenting alone.

 

With the right support you can:

  • Regain emotional balance

  • Take back control of communication

  • Protect your children from adult tension

  • Create sustainable, healthier parenting patterns

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Reach out for a confidential consult.

Let’s build your trusted roadmap forward.

Timely, responsive, same-day       Trauma-Informed Coparenting Coaching support.

Confidential. Personalized. 1-on-1. 
Effective. Empowering.

USA, 2025

So Highly Effective!

I started working with Chavisa after a deep dive into finding a trauma therapist/coach who really understands the healing process of lifelong CPTSD. I have had therapists who haven’t. I found myself recommending books for them to read because I’m that nerd who keeps hoping I can learn my way out of this. Unfortunately I have come to the conclusion that I need human support and feedback to heal whether I like it or not.

When I found Chavisa I was still reluctant but also desperate to heal. And thankfully, she gets it, unlike any therapist/coach I’ve worked with. She understands that sometimes it’s a slow process and sometimes it’s a slower process to heal. I feel like I have space to be and to think.

We’ve only been working together for a couple of months and the impact it has had on my life has blown my mind! I highly recommend her to anybody recovering from PTSD, CPTSD, or any other unresolved trauma. She really cares. And it shows!

Land Acknowledgement:

GRATITUDE

The Mother Corp. is gratefully situated on the unceded ancestral lands and territories of the xwməθkwəy̓əm (Musqueam), Skwxwú7mesh (Squamish), Səl̓ílwətaʔ/ Selilwitulh (Tsleil- Waututh) Nations. Respecting the ancestors, supernatural ones, hereditary leaders and matriarchs, creatures big and small for looking after the rich resources and cultural teachings of this spectacular land. Tsawalk - We are interconnected.

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